Comments on: About Me http://thecrossdresser.org Useful information for transgendered girls Fri, 27 Jan 2012 23:16:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: admin http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-12574 admin Sat, 07 Jan 2012 03:23:26 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-12574 Hey Brian, thanks for sharing your story. I'm glad you have a therapist who knows how to help, and that you're learning to accept this side of yourself :) I've never heard that crossdressing is prevalent among autistic people, but I can at least imagine why that would make sense. Best of luck with your self exploration, and I would be quite interested to hear if you learn anything more about this! Hey Brian, thanks for sharing your story. I’m glad you have a therapist who knows how to help, and that you’re learning to accept this side of yourself :) I’ve never heard that crossdressing is prevalent among autistic people, but I can at least imagine why that would make sense. Best of luck with your self exploration, and I would be quite interested to hear if you learn anything more about this!

]]> By: Brian http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-12572 Brian Sat, 07 Jan 2012 02:16:22 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-12572 Your story is very similar to mine, except my first girlfriend was so passive, that she pretended to accept my crossdressing, and then ended up dumping me because of it. She was my first girlfriend, and I was around 15 years old (we went a little fast). I knew her since I was 13 years old, and began going out with her at 14 years old. This experience, along with the confusion that naturally occurs in a 15 year old when he sees and hears things he doesn't completely understand, caused me to try and suppress my CD urges, and partake in other, riskier behaviors instead. I did this for about year, and then I had a strange, cross-dressing dream, followed by a series of dreams about my ex (strangely, these dreams occured on the days leading up to that break up, and seemed to symbolically correspond with the events leading up to the break up). When I woke up I knew I wasn't being honest with my self. I went through a period of hating this side of myself myself, and I was seeing a therapist who didn't completely understand crossdressing, but he was a GREAT therapist-he listened to what I was saying and was open-minded. I think it's a little unfair to say that all therapists don't work, because there are some pretty good ones. The one who helped me out of this hole of self-loathing was the person who ran an Aspergers social group I attend. I have Aspergers Syndrome. It turns out that this person said that a lot of other people he works with tend to cross dress. It's an interesting and comforting fact that a lot of my autistic peers also are not disposed to conform to the gender roles assigned to them by society. He had my parents come over to a meeting and explained to them that this is something I NEED to do, and so I now have a debit card (I'm 17 now). I haven't bought anything yet but for the first time, my crossdressing is a mole-hill, not a mountain. I'm interested to see if high functioning autistic people really tend to crossdress, so it might be cool to see what other therapists managing austistic people say about that subject. Your story is very similar to mine, except my first girlfriend was so passive, that she pretended to accept my crossdressing, and then ended up dumping me because of it. She was my first girlfriend, and I was around 15 years old (we went a little fast). I knew her since I was 13 years old, and began going out with her at 14 years old. This experience, along with the confusion that naturally occurs in a 15 year old when he sees and hears things he doesn’t completely understand, caused me to try and suppress my CD urges, and partake in other, riskier behaviors instead. I did this for about year, and then I had a strange, cross-dressing dream, followed by a series of dreams about my ex (strangely, these dreams occured on the days leading up to that break up, and seemed to symbolically correspond with the events leading up to the break up). When I woke up I knew I wasn’t being honest with my self. I went through a period of hating this side of myself myself, and I was seeing a therapist who didn’t completely understand crossdressing, but he was a GREAT therapist-he listened to what I was saying and was open-minded. I think it’s a little unfair to say that all therapists don’t work, because there are some pretty good ones. The one who helped me out of this hole of self-loathing was the person who ran an Aspergers social group I attend. I have Aspergers Syndrome. It turns out that this person said that a lot of other people he works with tend to cross dress. It’s an interesting and comforting fact that a lot of my autistic peers also are not disposed to conform to the gender roles assigned to them by society. He had my parents come over to a meeting and explained to them that this is something I NEED to do, and so I now have a debit card (I’m 17 now). I haven’t bought anything yet but for the first time, my crossdressing is a mole-hill, not a mountain. I’m interested to see if high functioning autistic people really tend to crossdress, so it might be cool to see what other therapists managing austistic people say about that subject.

]]> By: svetlana http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-9681 svetlana Fri, 30 Sep 2011 23:23:38 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-9681 Dang , it's hard to believe how close your story paralleled mine, especially the hose part. Thanks for your help, it has been most informative! Dang , it’s hard to believe how close your story paralleled mine, especially the hose part. Thanks for your help, it has been most informative!

]]> By: admin http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-7368 admin Tue, 28 Jun 2011 22:14:13 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-7368 Thanks Sheri! Oops, didn't realize that my RSS feed link had disappeared last time I updated my theme . . . you can subscribe to my feed at http://thecrossdresser.org/feed/rss/ Thanks Sheri! Oops, didn’t realize that my RSS feed link had disappeared last time I updated my theme . . . you can subscribe to my feed at http://thecrossdresser.org/feed/rss/

]]> By: Sheri Brooks http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-7364 Sheri Brooks Tue, 28 Jun 2011 19:35:44 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-7364 Love your web page. Do you provide update emails etc? Love your web page. Do you provide update emails etc?

]]> By: admin http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-5980 admin Tue, 26 Apr 2011 21:34:14 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-5980 Hey Joanna, glad you enjoyed the video and thank you :) You can always find more of my videos at my other website, www.TheCrossdresser.COM Good luck with the website! Hey Joanna, glad you enjoyed the video and thank you :) You can always find more of my videos at my other website, http://www.TheCrossdresser.COM

Good luck with the website!

]]> By: Joanna http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-5972 Joanna Tue, 26 Apr 2011 18:22:50 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-5972 I came across your site after watching a video on YouTube about two crossdresses kissing. I must sy, you are hotter than the other. Anyways. I'm a crossdresser too and I wanted to tell you how hot you are and to visit my new page as well. I came across your site after watching a video on YouTube about two crossdresses kissing. I must sy, you are hotter than the other. Anyways. I’m a crossdresser too and I wanted to tell you how hot you are and to visit my new page as well.

]]> By: Ryan Killian http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-2429 Ryan Killian Fri, 12 Nov 2010 11:40:01 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-2429 Ryan Killian loves his FemSkin rrkillian@comcast.net Ryan Killian 532 Radio Rd Elizabethtown, PA 17022 United States Ryan Killian loves his FemSkin
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]]> By: admin http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-294 admin Tue, 27 Apr 2010 19:27:11 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-294 Hey Abbii, just saw your comment and email. I have shot some other gurls, but I'm not doing too much of that any more. I enjoy shooting, but I don't have much time for it and got tired of models not showing :( Sad but true. By the way, I can totally respect a gurl's interest in privacy, but it's really a shame to not show your face at least for private photos! Be proud of who you are (even if you keep it to yourself), besides it will make for much better photos :) Hey Abbii, just saw your comment and email. I have shot some other gurls, but I’m not doing too much of that any more. I enjoy shooting, but I don’t have much time for it and got tired of models not showing :( Sad but true.

By the way, I can totally respect a gurl’s interest in privacy, but it’s really a shame to not show your face at least for private photos! Be proud of who you are (even if you keep it to yourself), besides it will make for much better photos :)

]]> By: Abbii http://thecrossdresser.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-287 Abbii Sat, 24 Apr 2010 15:05:08 +0000 http://thecrossdresser.org/?page_id=2#comment-287 Do you do photoshoots of other gurls for non publishing or publishing without full face pics? I am on flickr and urnot. Great Site. Do you do photoshoots of other gurls for non publishing or publishing without full face pics? I am on flickr and urnot.

Great Site.

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